The "Rewind" button - used to go back to a previous time, whether used to hear a song again, go back to a favorite part of a movie, or simply to go back because you missed or didn't hear something and wanted to replay what you missed.
Today I want to push the rewind button, to some favorite parts of my life, to parts that I would like to relive, to times that I miss and would like to replay.
1. Vacations ~ when all I had to do was make a pile of the clothes I wanted, and my mother would pack them in a suitcase, and I'd hop in the car, full of excitement for an adventure with my family. I didn't pay for the vacation, I didn't have to find caretakers for our pets, and I didn't even pack for myself, much less make sure the whole family was packed and had all kinds of fun times awaiting them for the next week of their lives.
2. Pregnancy tests ~ I remember sitting there counting down the minutes until I could look and see the answer. It was much like sitting in the rollercoaster seat, going up the hill, filled with nervous excitement. Then you near the top, the peak of the hill, you look at the test and see the + sign and then it's down the hill, arms raised high, cheering and filled with excitement for the rest of the ride and the uphills and downhills, twists and turns, and sometimes being completely upside down that await you.
3. Wedding day ~ Everything was perfect, well-planned out to be perfect. The bride and groom stare at each other with the stars in their eyes and nothing but love and happiness in their hearts. I remember thinking "I will never be mad at this man, we will always be happy and agree on everything and never argue. We will never experience hard times, and everything is now perfect." Naive and hopeful was I, and 14 1/2 yrs later, we're still here together, being mad, not always agreeing, in hard and easy times, but the stars and love are still there.
4. Mothering ~ when I was a young mother, it was just me and my son. My world revolved around him. After work, we did what he wanted to do, ate what he wanted to eat, and he had my undivided attention until he went to bed. Then came a husband, more kids, more errands, sports practices and games, and life became a whole lot crazier. There was a bigger house to clean, more time spent on errands, a bigger commute to work, and more people to care for and who needed my attention. And as much as I love crazy and love how our family grew, some days I'd give anything for some time spent with each of my children, one on one, just enjoying each other.
5. Footloose and fancy free ~ I remember when my time was my time, when I got out of school or work and had all the time in the world to do what I wanted to do and to fill with fun. Sometimes that meant doing nothing but cruising around with friends to our favorite hangouts, sometimes it meant going shopping, sometimes concerts, but almost all of those times involved my friends. I have had many crazy adventures that I never thought were crazy at the time, but now in my mature grown-up state of mind, I realize some were quite dangerous and are now the things that keep me up at night while my son is not yet home.
6. Lessened knowledge ~ I definitely would like to rewind to a time when I knew NOTHING about cancer or pancreatitis, to a time when I didn't know anyone who had cancer, or when the only people I knew who were sick or were dying were elderly people, and not relatives or children.
7. Fat clothes ~ How about a rewind to the time when the "fat clothes" in my closet were size 8?!?!
8. Disagreements ~ I'd also like to rewind to a time when no one was mad at me or at least if anyone was, I was unaware of it and didn't feel the sense of loss of a friendship that was once a very big part of my life.
9. Feeling Needed ~ I loved when my children were less independent. I know that sounds odd, but I liked to feel needed, to feel that they needed me for rides, for company, for someone to talk to and for hugs and pick-me-ups when they felt down. I enjoyed being the one they came to, the one whose advice they sought and the one they felt could make it all better. Feeling needed is much better than feeling like a nuisance.
So can I push the rewind button every so often? Can I have a wild night out with the girls, dancing and laughing, and staying out late? Can ShBooms open again just for that one night? Can I go back to the days when my babies were little? Can I have my dad and Melanie back? Can Jake's pancreatitis and Grayson's leukemia go away? Can I go back to my honeymoon in Aruba? Can I go back to a size 8 and feel fat wearing it? Can I have my friend back? And can someone else pack for vacation? We leave Friday.